Just stop faking it already!

by Sara Davidson on January 22, 2010

Even this guy can't fake being Elvis

Attention all advertising agencies, marketing professionals, corporations, bloggers or human beings in general: Just stop faking it already! Why?

Because you can’t get away with it anymore! And in the end, it’s going to cause you much more damage than it’s worth.

Think about it.

We’re well into the 21st century and the game has changed a LOT in the last 50 years. The sophistication and advancement of technology has completely revolutionized the way our entire world operates. And people have changed, too,  in how they consume, aggregate and distribute content; what they care about; and how they communicate. Today, it’s all about transparency, authenticity and integrity. These attributes are no longer an option, but a necessity for everyone. Let me explain by giving you a few examples:

If you’re an advertising agency, don’t fake it to your clients.

It’s no longer acceptable to over-promise services or results that you cannot deliver on at your client’s expense. For example, as you all know the economic crisis has encouraged many companies to pursue more cost-effective forms of communication, like social media. This, along with the sexiness of the word itself, has resulted in a surge of agencies adopting the “fake it ’til you make it” approach, claiming to be “experts” in order to get a piece of the pie. But the reality is that no one is an expert when in comes to social media. (Check out this article from The Buzz Bin, or for a good laugh read this one.)

It all comes down to results. Unfortunately, there are still agencies out there that create marketing campaigns that never measure whether or not their efforts actually helped achieve their client’s objectives. Social media is not a be-all-end-all solution to marketing. It should be part of an integrated campaign that ultimately drives revenue, builds awareness or achieves whatever measurable objective(s) you’ve identified. Yes, I understand we can only make a correlation, but measurement and evaluation still must occur – otherwise, how can we gauge success, evolve and improve our initiatives the next time around? No matter how hard you try to hide something, the truth will always be revealed. And even if it’s not from your clients, your industry peers are going to hold you accountable.

If you’re a marketer, don’t fake it to your consumers.

As I mentioned above, the marketing landscape has significantly changed over the last half-century. Consumer behavior and media habits are different, as are their relationships with brands. They’re more outspoken, less tolerant (or “obedient”). Mass media no longer exists as all communication channels multiplying and fragmenting. People have more choices, more distractions… and more of a voice than ever before.

Traditional one-way methods of marketing don’t cut it anymore. Public relations professionals can’t get away with putting the “spin” on stories like they used to. Consumers will no longer allow big media, companies or any salesperson to lie to them. They want to know and understand exactly what you are selling them, more importantly, will verify what they hear with their peers. Companies and brands are now fighting for trust from their intended audiences and are under increased public scrutiny thanks to the evolution of social media. However, this is an opportunity for organizations to use these tools to be genuinely transparent in their marketing initiatives and other matters that are important to stakeholders. And an opportunity for you to actually listen and engage in conversations with them. This is how you truly get a loyal customer base who will advocate on behalf of your brand.

If you’re a corporation, don’t fake it to your employees.

You have to be transparent about your company culture and work environment. Period. Companies that do this have an edge at attracting and retaining talented individuals. But more importantly, it’s going to improve your business results. Just look at Netflix, for example. Don’t put on a facade that your company is forward-thinking, risk-taking, innovative and collaborative if it really isn’t. If that’s the image you want, you have to honestly create that culture from within before you go out and use it as a recruiting tool. And if you are authentic, those employees will become your own spokespeople and brand advocates  (in fact, give them access to social media networks and encourage their participation on them!) If they come to your company and find out that they were deceived with false promises, they now have the ability to cause some serious damage to your company’s reputation – and rightfully so.

If you’re a blogger, don’t fake it to your community.

Rebecca Denison wrote a fantastic post this week about this very topic. She talked about the importance of being genuine  and letting your entire personality shine through in your online interactions. In my very first blog post, I felt vulnerable, so I openly talked about how that felt. This also applies to how you position yourself to your community. You have to be honest about who you are and what your motives are if you truly want to engage and build relationships with your readers. Yes, I am a marketing professional, but I’m much more than that. A large part of why I started this blog was to connect with other professionals  so we can have lively discussions around issues and trends in the industry. I’m not pretending to be an expert, because I’m certainly not one. But I definitely want to learn and grow, in hopes to become the absolute best professional and person I can be – and also hope that my blog can help others who are in the same place in their life or career as I am. Here’s a great article from Problogger a few years back that I also suggest you read.

How do you feel about the whole “fake it ’til you make it” approach? Do you think that there are still a lot of companies/agencies/people who are so eager to “drink the Kool-Aid” that they forget the importance of being honest, authentic and transparent? What are the short- and long-term repercussions?

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katbron January 22, 2010 at 11:12 am

Great post Sara! I think we are all starting to see the fall-out from faking it. Many companies jumped into social media only to find rejection and failure – and not that there is anything wrong with rejection or failure IF you learn something. Like you said, integration is key and even more importantly is asking yourself – what am I trying to do here?

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Sara Davidson January 22, 2010 at 5:11 pm

You’re exactly right, Kathy! So many companies dive in head first – Facebook page, Twitter, the whole kitchen sink – because they feel that they have to participate. And what they really need to do is identify what their goals and objectives are, and find the best mixed marketing approach to achieve them. Because depending on the audience you’re targeting, certain social media arenas might not even make sense! (But at a minimum, they should be listening :) )

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Erica January 22, 2010 at 12:56 pm

I loved this post and so, so timely for me right now. I’m about to launch my website in April (with the help of uber-talented Sarah over at http://www.sjoystudios.com) and I’m struggling with the concept of providing content that people actually want to, you know, read and stuff. I think it’s rooted in this fear that somehow being myself will across across as being unprofessional which is such a load of crap… people will be attracted (or not) based on who I am, not who or what I’m trying to be. So thank you; posts like this remind me to just forget the nerves and keep in real.

actumarrying the concept of prestruggling I started

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Sara Davidson January 22, 2010 at 5:17 pm

How exciting, Erica! I just checked out Sarah’s Web site and realized… you probably chose to work with her because of the way she presented herself there, too!

It’s funny because I have a journalism/PR background, so my writing is usually very formalized, newsy (ehem, BORING). Then when I started reading a lot of other blogs, I found that I really enjoyed and connected with those where their personalities really showed through. There’s definitely still a certain level of professionalism you have to keep, but ultimately you’ll want to build relationships and work with people who really like and value the real YOU!

I’m super pumped to check out your site when it launches and wish you the best! Keep in touch girlie!

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Cali Harris January 22, 2010 at 6:00 pm

[Butting in] Sarah Bray is ah-mazing. I had the chance to meet and become friends with her this past autumn, and she is the real thing. This makes me super excited to see your site, Erica!

I struggled with the exact same feelings about providing worthy, interesting content before starting my blog (and, in the spirit of transparency, I’m still struggling with it…which is why I’ve been embarrassingly inconsistent in posting. Bad blogger! BAD! :D ). Following along with what Sara has articulated in this post, along with what friends and fellow bloggers told me: just. do. it.

If you’re already THAT conscientious about sharing good content, then you MUST have good stuff to say.

*whistles* Now I’m off to go draft some posts…. ;)

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Sara Davidson February 2, 2010 at 10:08 pm

YOU’RE pretty much ah-mazing! So honest and adorable… and you actually went and did it, girl! You are sooo creative! We just need to continue giving each other encouragement if we fall behind in our blogging (aka a swift kick-in-the-ass!). Thanks so much for your thoughts, sweetheart. You’re the bestest. :)

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Cali Harris February 2, 2010 at 10:30 pm

I’m down with that: we’ll keep each other in line. ;)

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Sara Davidson February 2, 2010 at 10:40 pm

And encourage a little out of line behavior too, right?! ;)

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Cali Harris February 2, 2010 at 11:02 pm

Shhh!…yes!

Erica January 22, 2010 at 12:57 pm

See? That’s how new I am… I forgot to erase the crap at the bottom of my last comment. Ugh. Yay learning curves.

:)

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Sara Davidson January 22, 2010 at 5:18 pm

Haha are you kidding me?! I basically learned how to use Wordpress, like, a minute ago! lol

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Susan Baird January 22, 2010 at 1:16 pm

Wow, Sara! You’re so right on so many levels!

One bridge I’ve discovered that can help companies of all kinds transition from faking expertise through over-promising results is the move toward providing free content, whether e-books, webinars or even live lunch-and-learns. Many fear that people won’t spend money if they can get it for free, but the focus is on the relationship and the trust, and as you so eloquently described, the authenticity. Give a little, showcase the potential work with you could have, and people will gravitate.

Congrats on a great blog post, and thanks for sharing your expertise and perspective with us!

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Sara Davidson January 22, 2010 at 5:25 pm

Well hello, lovely lady! I think you have a great point, here. And so many of the best agencies and consultants are doing just that – like Hubspot, for example (http://www.hubspot.com/). They have the some of the best Webinars ever, and they are all free to the public. You do a great job of this as well!

I think it’s also a concept that many salespeople don’t utilize enough (like financial advisors, realtors, attorneys, etc.). If you are knowledgeable on a certain subject, share it! Blog about it! Speak about it! This is how you brand yourself, and like you said, build those relationships that will get your foot in the door with new prospects.

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Jen January 22, 2010 at 2:23 pm

This post is so dead on! One-way communication and pushing information is no longer effective. Engagement is key, and I understand that it’s a scary thing for people and big companies to open up a dialogue, but I think once they do it, they find that listening is the best way to build a relationship.

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Sara Davidson January 22, 2010 at 5:45 pm

Absolutely! It’s just a hard concept for some many people to wrap their head around. There’s still so many traditional agencies/companies, etc., that believe that shouting messages at people is going to earn their trust. We’re too inundated with a million messages each day, so I’m probably only going to grasp on to the ones who actually listen to me!

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Cameron Ziegenfuss January 23, 2010 at 7:19 am

With the technology and resources we have today, it’s getting harder and harder to fake it. Combine that with that fact that consumers are doing their research, and scrutinizing every buying decision, you’d be a fool to try to fake anything.
We generally know when companies are faking it. I noticed Chase Bank (credit card company) has a Facebook page (my spellcheck doesn’t recognize Facebook- get with the program, computer). Why the heck would I want to be a fan of a credit card company? That’s just dumb. I sure hope they aren’t paying someone to run that page.

I work for a workers comp insurance company. I review applications for small business, and often have to visit their website. Almost all of them mention the word “best, biggest, most reliable” etc, etc, etc,. Obviously that’s not true. Everyone can’t be the biggest and best.
You’re right. People want to see results. We’re not ignorant! We know when you’re faking it. It makes people/companies look like a fool!
I’ll take real over fake any day.
I’m kind of pissed right now for some reason.

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Sara Davidson February 2, 2010 at 10:16 pm

Lol I absolutely love how raw you’re responses are – you’re truly as “real” as it gets, Cameron! I’m so glad you’re participating in these discussions. One great point you bring up is how you can see right through those companies claiming to be the “best,” etc. Those types of marketing tactics can so easily turn a certain customer off completely, and their distaste for a brand can spread like wildfire. I understand why it’s a little disheartening, but the great thing about today is that you now have a voice! And the companies that really “get it” will be listening to you! :)

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Erica January 23, 2010 at 6:33 pm

Oh. Dude(s).

I just totally had some sort of epiphany with this. I mean, I’ve been “working on” the framework for the blogging content for awhile now (read: procrastinating my ass off) but I’ve had a hard time with just putting pen to paper. Fingers to keyboard. Whatever. And something in this comment thread just made something click for me…

For reals.

So much of the design/decor related blogs out there are… well, umm. I mean, they’re awesome in terms of inspiration, but they do little to show me what the author can DO. It’s sort of like, “hey, lookie here at these lovely photos. That I didn’t design. Want to work with me?!” It’s always left me feeling quite confused and uh, wanting.

I share this with you because I don’t believe it’s an obstacle unique to design-related blogging. Aren’t we all asking ourselves, “what am I trying to accomplish here?” and “what’s really going to set me apart from the other three gajillion blogs out there without NOT being myself?”

And the answer is simply that: just be yourself.

K. Enough with the shmaltzy cliches. I’m going back to the paper. Keyboard. Whatevs.

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Sara Davidson February 2, 2010 at 10:28 pm

Giiiirl… I totally hear you. I kept procrastinating getting the blog up and running for a million reasons. The design and name had to be perfect. What was my blogging strategy? Etc., etc., etc. I originally wanted to do a blog only related to PR/marketing, but realized that I’m NOT an expert who should only be giving advice on that topic. I have to be transparent, so a lot of my posts will be my thoughts on any given area, but will then be asking my community for their opinion. Sooo much of who you are and your personality will just come out in the content – how you connect with your readers, your feelings on issues. And I think the hope is that you’ll get readers who enjoy connecting with the real YOU! I feel like even through your post above here that I can see a little bit of who you are (and I LOVE it! haha). Puh-leaze let me know immediately once you do get your blog up and running. I just know it’s going to be great. :)

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Shane Eloe January 27, 2010 at 10:09 am

“I think it’s also a concept that many salespeople don’t utilize enough (like financial advisors, realtors, attorneys, etc.)…”

You’re exactly right about that! It also comes from a lack of perspective on marketing that many technical experts have (it’s not billable, I’m not doing it) combined with a lack of ability to distill their knowledge in a way a non-technical person (potential client) can relate to.

I understand this personally from taking a stab at blog world with blog number one (http://NumberInsights.com), not understanding what audience I should be focusing on, or what I should be trying to accomplish and have now launched blog number two (http://BluffsCPA.com) so that I can start over in a fresh space and see if I can connect with a different audience in a purposeful and focused way.

What Susan suggests (providing free, quality content to showcase your expertise) is great advice for any type of networking (relationship building) focusing on helping others to build their goodwill towards you. This shows two things: 1 – You know what you’re doing and 2 – You’re a nice person that people can like and relate to.

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Sara Davidson February 2, 2010 at 10:32 pm

Shane, you hit it right on the head. Think about it – the bloggers and professionals we have the most respect for are the ones who are willing to share their expertise for free. This is so important, especially with the way the world is shifting. I think in the very near future, we’ll see that mostly all quality content will be free.

I’m excited to check out your new blog, but even more excited to connect with you in person in the near future!! Thanks so much for your thoughts!

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Brent Pohlman January 27, 2010 at 6:09 pm

Sara

Great site! I saw it on Linkedin – Social Media Pros Group News… I like the part on Marketers. Congrats on your new Blog!

Brent

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Sara Davidson February 2, 2010 at 10:33 pm

Thanks so much, Brent! It means a lot! We need to get together soon, it’s been way too long!

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AndreaVLewis February 3, 2010 at 5:40 pm

I couldn’t agree with you more Sara. Coming from the trenches of working on the (advertising) agency side I can say that I’ve seen the whole “fake it ’til you make it” approach first hand. This reason alone made me loath the industry that I had fought so hard to become a part of. I spent 5 years studying advertising, graphic design, and communications in school and 2 years working in large full service agencies with some very high profile clients. In fact, I think I may have uttered the words, “If clients only knew what happened behind the scenes, we’d be fired in a heartbeat”.

One of the main reasons for my decision to leave the advertising world to pursue a career in social media is because I truly feel that social media provides a much more truthful approach to not only advertising, but to business practices in general. The opportunity to take part in organic back and forth banter with current and prospective customers, is probably the greatest way to truly see how your business is perceived.

I try to live all aspects of my life, both personally and professionally, by these words: “Learn, share and connect with individuals through personal experiences and real life conversations”. And in doing so, I’ve been much more productive, happy and fulfilled. I mean who could ask for more, right?

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Sara Davidson February 4, 2010 at 9:16 am

Andrea – Wow. We are on the exact same page here – both in our views on our industry, as well as our personal lives. Regarding ad/PR agencies, I’ve thought this for awhile. There’s a lot of them (particularly in my area) that have been “faking it” to their clients for a long time. They encourage their clients to spend massive amounts of money on media buys, when that’s not always the most effective way to market to their audiences. Not only that, but most the time these campaigns are largely based off of assumptions, that you’re going to reach X # of consumers. Yes, the billboards, print ads and TV commercials might look great, but are they reeeally delivering results? Are you truly even listening to what you’re customers are saying (a.k.a. or do you even care)?

I love, love, LOVE that quote. I’m so glad that you’re finally doing work that is fulfilling. I enjoy all forms of marketing, but that’s certainly why I’m such an advocate for social media. And also because it allows me to meet talented and passionate people just like you! Thanks so much for being here. Cheers! :)

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Andrew February 4, 2010 at 8:30 am

Found you through Brazen Careerist. GREAT points. I think this world is sorting itself out a bit – and the bullsh*t has to go. We’re a bit wiser now and we’re just not going to put up with it anymore. If you want to have a personal gain, you need to create a win-win situation: you need to SERVE. And you need to be real and truthful with your clients while you are at it. It’s how you can be happy with what you do; and if you’re happy you’ll do it better; and everything you do will earn you better, too. That’s what it’s all about. We are one. That’s just the point. Life, relationships, business, family, what have you – that is the number one principle.

Andrew

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Sara Davidson February 4, 2010 at 9:29 am

Good to meet you, Andrew! You are absolutely right. Technology now has basically forced companies/people to be genuine in their actions and intentions, otherwise (as you said) we’re all going to see right through the bullsh*t and will hold them accountable. If we all apply this concept to all aspects of our lives, we’re truly going to be happier in the end. That’s what it’s all about!

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Davina Leezer March 26, 2010 at 2:12 pm

Sara – I love, love, love this post! I was a HUGE fan of transparency even before it was trendy!! BE. YOUR. SELF. and if you don’t love it, do something about it! My motto is never do something you would want to lie about and you pretty much got it covered. I know the phrase “it’s all about relationships” is nearing death by overuse, but it’s so true. Nowadays, you burn a bridge, you’re going down with it.

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